In life the reaction we give to actions being done to us makes all the difference between happiness and sadness. You know what they say that ten percent is action to us and ninety percent is our reaction to it. So one need to improve on how one reacts to whatever action that is metted towards us. If you do not take something serious it will surely loose it’s relevance. Make sure to trivialise actions that bother us so that they can loose their value and therefore stop bothering us. You have the power to improve your life and be happy.