FRANKLY SPEAKING WITH FRANCA

Q: I feel like I’ve outgrown some of my friends, but I don’t know how to handle it without hurting them. What should I do?

Franca’s Answer: Outgrowing people is a natural part of personal growth, even though it can feel uncomfortable.

You don’t need to cut people off abruptly. Instead, allow the relationship to evolve naturally. Spend time where you feel aligned and reduce time where you feel disconnected.

Be respectful and kind. There is no need for conflict or dramatic explanations.

Focus on your growth while appreciating what those friendships once meant.

Not all relationships are meant to last forever, and that’s okay. Growth sometimes requires change.